Posts like this are at the root of some of the shittiest crap that goes on on the internet. They peddle the message that EVERYONE judges you, even those you trust. It says you should judge others before they judge you. It says that if you don't judge others like this, you are naive and everyone else is judging you anyway. The message it throws out is this - People are all cunts, so be a cunt and fit in.
All this hidden bullshit is sprayed around on facebook as being jokey, funny and harmless. Quirky quotes of aggressive crap telling how you don't care about the folk who give you angst in life are another trend I hate. I see that people might want to present a facade of bravado, but truthfully, if people are shitwits to you, you need to show them how that hurts, not wear the mask of some angry cunt who doesn't like others to hide the fact that you are hurting. Otherwise you risk becoming the angry cunt who doesn't like anyone.
The ugly friend thing in particular needs stamping on - Nothing is more ugly than encouraging others to be judgemental in order to feel better about being a judgemental twat yourself. Just don't do it. Don't make others feel like crap. Don't think about your friends like that. Its really fucking destructive.
Have I got any ugly friends? - well, I'm sure there are people on my timeline and friends list who do judge others in lots of ways, but I can't really bring myself to tag them as ugly. Do I have friends who might be seen as less than attractive? Fuck knows, people, I truly wouldn't have a bloody clue because I'm too busy trying to keep my own head above water to be arsed pushing anyone elses under.
So, erm..... stop it with the judgey judging judgefest. Life is hard enough surely....